You NEED more than anything loving support !!!
On the rebuild of your life you need a solid foundation. Just like growing up as a child it takes time. It comes a little bit at a time. You learn first to sit up, then you learn to crawl, then you learn to walk, and even run.
Time is what it takes !! Action is what it takes !! Desire is what it takes !!
You didn’t learn to sit up before you knew how to roll over. You didn’t know how to crawl before you had strength enough to pull yourself forward. You didn’t learn to walk until you had conquered balance and running well that took you to a whole new level.
So it is with grief. You have to start with baby steps. First surviving is about support of the people who love and care for you. Care for yourself is huge.
A solid foundation is based on ”knowing”. KNOW there is a God in the heavens and has things worked out for your good.
Tough times are a reality. BUT that saying ”when the going gets tough the tough get going”. TRUE in grief. You have to grit your teeth, hold on with both hands to everything that supports you and get into God’s promises. You can’t hold on to his promises until you know them. Find someone who can help you with that. I can be that ”someone”.
The promise in God’s word ” Blessed are those who mourn for they shall be comforted” became my life line – and from here I learned other promises. The book of Psalms is full of his loving promises. He doesn’t lie and nobody cares as much as he does. You’re his precious child.
God’s promises form the solid foundation that you can rebuild your life on. God will use your grief journey to develop within you qualities you had no idea lived within you. You will become a light and what a legacy that is to the loved one that’s already waiting for you in heaven.[/et_pb_text][/et_pb_column] [/et_pb_row] [/et_pb_section]